Diese Frage ist f�r Frauen, this question is for women.?

I think he is happy where he is because he probably feels he can accomplish more by staying home and doing the house chores. There is nothing wrong with that. However, there is nothing keeping him from finding a good paying job. How severely did the stroke affect him? In other words, is he more limited because of it? If he is unable to work because of it, can he apply for disability? If he is on disability then that monthly check would help out. I think in his mind he is doing his part. He is doing his share. He made the house for her and that is expensive. He cooks because he knows that his wife is going to be hungry and exhausted after a day at work. He cleans because if he doesn't then the chores will pile up because she doesn't have a whole lot of time to. For those reasons, she shouldn't complain about him. I don't think it would hurt for him to go on a job search. If he finds one, then the money he earns will go towards a few things. He and his wife can split the bills and cost for groceries and fuel. And if he wants to spend a little on himself, that would be fine. They shouldn't have any arguments over that. As for the wife, she should go to her doctor to find out what is going on. Who knows? I think something is wrong with both of them. They should also consider marriage counseling as well.